Care Calendars For The Grieving

October 2, 2023

Funeral home professionals will take care of your loved one’s needs, but when you have a friend who is grieving, you might want to be there for other needs they have.

funeral homes in Boonville, CA

It’s hard to lose a loved one and you might know that from personal experience. When you hear that a friend has been working with funeral homes in Boonville, CA for a loved one’s final services after a death in their family, you might want to extend your help to them. There are a variety of things you might do, including working as an organizational hub and creating a care calendar. Here are some tips to help you with that process. 



Think About What They Need 

When you went through a loved one’s death yourself, what extras did you need help with? You can use that as a starting point, which can help you decide what kinds of tasks you want to put on the care calendar. You can also simply ask your friend where they are struggling and what they need to cover. They might surprise you in being completely open and honest about the things they really need. And they will certainly be touched that you want to help them through this hard time. 



Gather Friends To Help 

You likely have other friends in your group who also want to help your mutual friend, but are unsure how they can do so. Gather the friends who want to help and get an idea what kinds of things they want to do and where their talents lie. Make a list of those friends and let them know what you are doing and that you will have a place for them to help. 



Arrange The Services 

Decide how long you are covering certain tasks for your friend and set up a calendar. An online calendar is easy to share and easy for others to fill in. People can fill their names in as they want and everyone will be able to see what jobs are taken and what are still open. As you create the calendar, say for a month’s time, you can place meals, mowing tasks, and other such items on the list for people to grab. 


Distribute The Calendar 

After you have the dates, tasks, and other details set up, you will need to get the calendar out to the friends who want to help. You can email them a link, post things on social media, make phone calls, and get the word out in other ways. Make sure everyone who participates has all of the details needed. For example, if you are arranging meals, the family might put a cooler on their porch for the meals to be delivered so they don’t feel like they have to socialize with everyone stopping by. If the person needs to access the family lawnmower to get that job done, list how they can get to that device and so on. 


While it can take some organizing, your friend will appreciate the tasks you cover through the care calendar. The professionals at funeral homes in Boonville, CA can help with suggestions as well. Contact Eversole Mortuary any time you need advice. 


funeral homes Ukiah, CA
April 23, 2025
Creative ways funeral homes like Eversole Mortuary can personalize tributes help celebrate a loved one's unique life through captivating funeral services.
cremation services Boonville, CA
April 14, 2025
Ways to honor a veteran are available through cremation services in Boonville, CA, with tributes and memorials reflecting legacy, offered by Eversole Mortuary.
funeral homes Boonville, CA
April 7, 2025
Understand the essential steps in a thoughtful funeral pre-plan and gain lasting peace of mind with compassionate guidance from Eversole Mortuary today, always.
cremation services Willits, CA
March 24, 2025
Honor loved ones with cremation services in Willits, CA. At Eversole Mortuary, celebrate their lives with unique, personalized memorials. Call us now today!
funeral homes Willits, CA
March 17, 2025
Learn how to incorporate holiday traditions into funeral ceremonies, honored by Eversole Mortuary. Create a meaningful celebration of life with us. Call us now!
cremation services Ukiah, CA
March 10, 2025
Create a timeless tribute with personalized cremation services from Eversole Mortuary. Honor your loved one with care and dignity—explore your options today.
funeral homes Ukiah, CA
March 3, 2025
Ease funeral anxiety with expert tips from Eversole Mortuary. Discover comfort, support, and compassionate guidance in honoring your loved ones. Call us now!
cremation services Boonville, CA
By Eversole Mortuary February 24, 2025
Discover how dignified veteran cremation services stand out, with meaningful personalized tributes honoring veterans' heroic sacrifices. Learn more today!
funeral homes Boonville, CA
By Eversole Mortuary February 17, 2025
Discover how funeral homes Boonville, CA offer personalized tributes for a meaningful farewell, enhancing healing for families. Call us today to learn more.
cremation services Willits, CA
By Eversole Mortuary February 10, 2025
Discover thoughtful flower gifts for grieving, reflecting on cremation services. Honor loved ones with meaningful floral tributes. Call us today to learn more.
More Posts